Some think cheating is the main reason, but it is not, in Mark’s experience. Infidelity, financial issues, intimacy issues, and conflict. Sometimes a marriage fails because of a mixture of several conflicts that the couple cannot get past. The list of reasons people get a divorce is long, but for today’s program, we focus on four main reasons for divorce: financial reasons, intimacy issues, impossible conflicts, and a difference of priorities and interests in life. So why do people get divorced?
This program is intended to educate people about common issues that they face in a divorce, with children and property issues, among others. Mark L. Scroggins is Board-Certified in Family Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization and he has decades of experience in high-conflict divorce and family law. Scroggins Law Group, PLLC is a divorce and family law firm and they get called in on the big cases with lots of challenges. The Scroggins Law Group attorneys can help you at their main office in Frisco, at their Dallas office in Energy Square, and by appointment in Plano.
Inability to Resolve Conflicts and Decisions to Get Divorced
As Mark says, people are different and there are so many different personality types. Some people are stronger willed than others, and some people are passive-aggressive in their approach to conflict. If you are living with constant conflict and an inability to resolve things, Mark suggests going to a counselor to learn how to fight fair and how to communicate and get beyond conflict and get to a resolution. Counseling can help people learn when to hold your tongue and when to talk. People who are strong reactors, who know their volatility level is high should know when to walk away and calm down. Take a few days to cool off before talking and when it comes to social media and emails, hold off and don’t press send.
When people have children, different parenting styles are common sources of conflict. For example, spanking a kid can lead to arguments over parenting and punishment. When parents are at odds with their approaches to parenting, conflict resolution can become a problem in a marriage. Either the couple can learn to compromise, or the inability to resolve conflicts can lead to divorce.
If You are Wondering Why Do People Get Divorced and This Information Hits Close to Home, Call Mark L. Scroggins at Scroggins Law Group in Frisco, Dallas, and Plano, We Are Here to Help (214) 469-3100
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